The Chris Brown assault against Rihanna may be old news, but her recent interview has stirred up the conversation once again.

What is one of the most sentimental parts of her emotional interview, is when Rihanna goes on to say that the reason she finally decides to leave Chris was to set an example that you shouldn't go back to an abusive relationship, even though she admits at first she did. "When I realized that my selfish decision for love could result in to some young girl getting killed, I couldn't be easy with that part. I couldn't be responsible for telling girls to go back."

What was also alarming is that it takes a girl eight to nine times to be abused before leaving their significant other. But what defines an abusive relationship? According to Teen Health, signs of an abusive relationship include if your significant other:

-harms you physically in any way, including slapping, pushing, grabbing, shaking, smacking, kicking, and punching

-tries to control different aspects of your life, such as how you dress, who you hang out with, and what you say

-frequently humiliates you or making you feel unworthy (for example, if a partner puts you down but tells you that he or she loves you)

-coerces or threatens to harm you, or self-harm, if you leave the relationship

-twists the truth to make you feel you are to blame for your partner's actions

-demands to know where you are at all times

-constantly becomes jealous or angry when you want to spend time with your friends

If any of these signs are in your relationship, talk to someone immediately and see how you can get help.

What are your thoughts on abusive relationships? Why do you think girls are so reluctant to leave them? How do you know the difference between a bad fight and abuse? Post your thoughts below.

xoxo,

Colleen

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Get excited! Lifehouse has just announced the release date for their fifth studio album Smoke and Mirrors. And while you will have to wait until Dec. 8 for the album, we have a listen of the group's new single "Halfway Gone" below!

The song was written by Lifehouse lead singer Jason Wade, producer Jude Cole and Kevin Rudolf. Can't get enough of this tune? You can buy it on iTunes today!

What do you think of "Halfway Gone?"

xoxo,

Colleen

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It's been almost a year since Chris Brown assaulted Rihanna after a pre-Grammy party, shocking fans all over the world.

After a long silence, Rihanna has decided to open up about what really happened that night in an interview with Diane Sawyer. The entire interview will be shown Friday, Nov. 6 on 20/20. Check out the clip below of the first part of the interview, which aired on Good Morning America today.

What do you think about what Rihanna had to say?

xoxo,

Colleen

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Boot season is upon us! And now thanks to Kaboodle and Aldo you can get these hot fuchsia suede Kapetanos boots for free!

All you have to do is tell Kaboodle how you would style these booties during the holiday season and they could be yours! Comment here until Nov. 8 and win a prize for your piggies! Good luck!

We want to hear your style tips too! How would you style these booties?

xoxo,

Colleen

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The Sunstreak has been busy little band bees during their middle school tour and is getting ready to kick off another one next month! But their hard work certainly hasn't gone unnoticed to the Canton South Band in Ohio.

After reading about The Sunstreak on CosmoGirl the band learned how to play the group's hit single, "Until I Met You." Check out this awesome video below and be sure to read our interview with The Sunstreak!

What's the craziest thing you've ever done for your favorite band?

xoxo,

Colleen

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I remember the first time going home after starting college. I couldn't wait. I missed my bed, my mom's cooking, my friends, family, and my dog!

Going home however, wasn't like going home after high school. It had been three whole months since I had seen everyone. While I was still making friends at college, adjusting to a roommate, a new city, and a completely new life, I was returning to what I thought would be exactly the same.

How wrong was I! Life hadn't stopped once after I left, and things had changed. My brother was taller, my friends and I had different takes on our college experiences, and I didn't fit in with everyone exactly the way I did before I left home.

My mom had slightly redecorated my room, and I could feel that I didn't live there anymore. At first it sounded like I was being really negative, but over time I realized that it was true and there was nothing wrong with it. I was at the start of building my own new, adult life. And there was nothing wrong with that! It was nice to see that I was doing different things while staying close to the people at home who mattered to me the most.

When I went home for the first time since leaving for college I didn't mesh as well with everyone as I did before, but over time it was simply an adjustment period. Now, every Thanksgiving and Christmas, I can't wait to go home and spend time with old friends and family. It gives me time to convince everyone to come visit me during the school year, so they can see what my new life at college is like!

Do you have any stories about going home for the first time since leaving for college? Post your stories below!

Xoxo,

Divya

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Surf's up for Cynthia Rowley! An avid surfer herself, the fashion designer is teaming up with surf company Roxy, to create a new line this spring.

But even if you're not a surfer girl, you can still get in on these clothes! Cynthia Rowley for Roxy will include a mix of surf clothes along with board shorts, flats, accessories, dresses, swimwear, and more! Price ranges are from $18 for accessories such as scarves up to an $89 long-sleeve bodysuit.

Cynthia Rowley for Roxy will be available in March exclusively at Barneys New York. You can also find the line in Cynthia Rowley boutiques and Roxy stores. We love the idea of both surfers and non water lovers alike being able to wear these clothes. They give off a perfect beachy, summer vibe all year round!

Do you wear Roxy?

xoxo,

Colleen

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Vera Wang's Princess is getting a bit of a fragrance makeover. After last year's addition of Rock Princess, the brand plans to launch a new scent called Glam Princess.

Set to hit stores in December, Glam Princess will have top notes of crushed red berries, guava, pear, orange blossom and vanilla orchid. Sounds absolutely yummy!

Prices for the new scent will be $45 for 1.7 oz., 3.4 oz. for $72, and $32 for the body lotion.

Have you tried any of the Vera Wang Princess fragrances?

xoxo,

Colleen

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Eco-gear has just been taken to a whole other level. Now you can show your love for Mother Earth on your butt! A Lot to Say has an eco-friendly line of undies that are made from recycled plastic bottles. Each pair of undies uses a No Water Dye process, while having some key green facts about the Earth.

By choosing from LOVE, VIRGIN, CONNECT, HOT, TAP, and TURN ON, you can wear some important political and green facts that need to be recognized. For example, the LOVE undies come with eco tips, like "LOVE the planet, lose the plastic. Only 3% of plastic is being recycled. The rest winds up buried in landfills and can take between 200 to 400 years to degrade."

Go green with our A Lot to Say Undies Sweepstakes, and you could win a prize pack of them today!

What do you do to stay green?

xoxo,

Colleen

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Yesterday Nintendo kicked off the launch of their new game Style Savvy with a huge fashion challenge at JCPenney! The Style Savvy "Fashion Fest" challenged mothers and daughters to put their shopping skills to the test by creating a unique look on a budget.

While the teams raced to the racks, we had some time to chat with one of the event's runway judges and fashion designer Charlotte Ronson about her mother daughter shopping experiences! Not only does Ronson have her I Heart Ronson line at JCPenney, it's also one of the 10,000 fashions available in Style Savvy's virtual boutique. Check out what she had to say below.

CosmoGirl: Did you get your fashion genes from your mother?

Charlotte Ronson: I think so. Being twins (with DJ sister Samantha Ronson) we were always dressed the same but she made sure we were able to find our own identity. I loved to wear pink but when I was in trouble she would make me wear blue! My mother never wore full outfits, she always stood out by mixing and matching. Her thing was always asking "Do you love it?" Whenever we would go shopping she would always ask my sister and I if we loved what we were trying on. I was always so indecisive so I'd go home without anything and my sister would go home with everything.

CG: Did your mom ever buy you something that was just hideous?

CR: Oh yes! We all got matching horrible ski jackets. They were a gross green color and overstuffed. We all got one so we could match. There was a lot of matching going on in my family back then.

CG: What is the best shopping tip your mom gave you?

CR: She was never about labels. It was always cooler to find something special and unique.

CG: What is one staple you think all girls should have hanging in their closet?

CR: I think it depends on the person. For me, I'm a more casual person so it's about a great coat and then that will dress up the rest of the outfit.

For more information on Style Savvy, which hits stores Nov. 2, visit Nintendo.com or StyleSavvyDS.com

What's the best shopping tip your mom has given you?

xoxo,

Colleen

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Miley Cyrus took away another award this year, but she may not want it. According to a recent AOL survey, 42 percent of teens between ages 9 to 15 voted her the worst celebrity influence of 2009. Kanye and Britney followed behind in the top three spots.

Yet at the same time, the survey showed lots of love for Miley! The same poll put her in fourth for favorite female artist. So do we love her or hate her? True, she did pole dance at the Teen Choice Awards, in addition to her relationship with Justin Gaston, who was just a tad bit older than her, but she also brings us hits like "Party in the USA!" Sigh...we are torn when it comes to Miley.

What do you think about Miley? She did deserve to get the award for worst celebrity influence?

xoxo,

Colleen

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Have you ever heard of the term "turkey drop?" It's when a college freshman breaks up with their high school boyfriend on the first holiday vacation home, usually Thanksgiving.

This can be extremely difficult. You probably still love the person you spent those four years of high school with however, now that you're in college, you want to explore and get to know new people. College is the time you grow up and figure out who you really are, including who you'd like to date.

Even if you and your boyfriend made a solemn vow to each other before you left for college that nothing would change between you two let's face it, change is inevitable.

A friend of mine worked through his entire first year of college to stay with his high school girlfriend. It delayed the pain they both felt when they finally did split, because eventually the long distance didn't work. They were both doing different things with their life and because of that, the relationship had changed.

You definitely aren't alone if you're thinking about how your once perfect relationship is hitting a few bumps now that you are at college. When this happens, it's important to think about the decision you're going to make. Will you be happier if you are single your freshmen year? Or will you spend every night crying on the phone telling him how much you miss him? The relationships you created in high school are strong, genuine, and if you choose can last a long time, even if it isn't in the same context it once was.

Your breakup may not be easy, and telling your hometown boyfriend that you want a break or are dating someone else may break your heart as much his. Remind yourself that you made this decision for a reason and if you're not 100 percent in a relationship, being honest with what you want is the best thing you can do for both of you.

Are you at school and thinking about breaking it off with your boyfriend? How would you handle the situation?

Xoxo,

Divya

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Barbie looks great for her age! The doll is turning 50 this year and to celebrate, she's getting herself a pair of Louboutins!

Designer Christian Louboutin will be working with Barbie in her 50th year to unveil three new Barbies with tiny pink Barbie shoes with a signature red Louboutin heel. These are the same heels that were featured on models at New York Fashion Week in February (those were not Barbie-sized).

In addition, Louboutin will work with Mattel in the release of a jewel thief Barbie this December, Sarfari Barbie in February, and a Cannes Film Festival Barbie in May. All dolls are $150 and can be purchased on BarbieCollector.com and Net-a-Porter.com. All collector Barbies come with three pairs of Louboutins and are delivered to you in a Louboutin box!

Do you still have your Barbies?

xoxo,

Colleen

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Dying to meet the cast of FOX's hit show Glee? Now you can! The cast will be popping up all over New York City and Los Angeles to promote Glee: The Music Vol.1.

Check out the listings below to see if they will be at a mall near you. If you're one of the first 400 people to buy the CD, you'll get a free wristband to give you access to the cast and get your CD signed! Start warming up those vocal cords!

Monday, Nov. 2 @ 4:00 p.m. - Roosevelt Field Mall / North Court Lower Level (below food court) Garden City, NY. Must be one of the first 400 people to buy the album from f.y.e at Roosevelt Mall.

Tuesday, Nov. 3 @ 5:30 p.m. - Borders, The Shops at Columbus Circle, Time Warner Center 10 Columbus Circle, NYC. Must be one of the first 400 people to buy the album from Borders in Columbus Circle.

Wednesday, Nov. 4 @ 6:30 p.m. - Best Buy @ Garden State Plaza Paramus, NJ. Must be one of the first 400 people to buy the album at Best Buy in the Garden State Plaza.

Saturday, Nov. 7 @ 4:00 p.m. - Barnes & Noble @ The Grove, 189 Grove Drive Los Angeles, CA. Must be one of the first 400 people to buy the album at Barnes & Noble at The Grove.

Do you watch Glee?

xoxo,

Colleen

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Want to find the perfect blush shade for your skin color? Or the perfect scent for the upcoming holiday season? Now you can!

Check out the newest member of our digital family, RealBeauty.com! Get everything from hair advice to makeup tips and tons more! Soon you will even be able to create your own beauty book to filter articles that are exactly for your hair, skin, and makeup needs.

And don't forget the blogs! For all of the latest and greatest products check out the New on the Shelves blog and the Reel Beauty blog, where yours truly (that's me!) will be blogging about all of the hottest hair and makeup styles on your favorite TV shows.

Don't worry, you can always find me here too!

What do you think about RealBeauty.com?

xoxo,

Colleen

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