Taking a Break During Your Fall Break

Have you ever heard of the term "turkey drop?" It's when a college freshman breaks up with their high school boyfriend on the first holiday vacation home, usually Thanksgiving.

This can be extremely difficult. You probably still love the person you spent those four years of high school with however, now that you're in college, you want to explore and get to know new people. College is the time you grow up and figure out who you really are, including who you'd like to date.

Even if you and your boyfriend made a solemn vow to each other before you left for college that nothing would change between you two let's face it, change is inevitable.

A friend of mine worked through his entire first year of college to stay with his high school girlfriend. It delayed the pain they both felt when they finally did split, because eventually the long distance didn't work. They were both doing different things with their life and because of that, the relationship had changed.

You definitely aren't alone if you're thinking about how your once perfect relationship is hitting a few bumps now that you are at college. When this happens, it's important to think about the decision you're going to make. Will you be happier if you are single your freshmen year? Or will you spend every night crying on the phone telling him how much you miss him? The relationships you created in high school are strong, genuine, and if you choose can last a long time, even if it isn't in the same context it once was.

Your breakup may not be easy, and telling your hometown boyfriend that you want a break or are dating someone else may break your heart as much his. Remind yourself that you made this decision for a reason and if you're not 100 percent in a relationship, being honest with what you want is the best thing you can do for both of you.

Are you at school and thinking about breaking it off with your boyfriend? How would you handle the situation?

Xoxo,

Divya