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QCC (Question, Comment, Compliment)
Initiating a flirting session can be this simple — question, comment, or compliment. So you’re waiting in line at the cafeteria — why not ask the cute guy in front of you what he thinks of the chicken? Open-ended questions are always better, as they keep the conversation flowing. If you don’t want to be so direct, comment on how good or gross that chicken looks. You don’t even have to say it right to him — but it will probably get him talking. And finally, tell him you like something of his, maybe his sweater. Everyone loves a compliment!
To Flirt, not Seduce
The seductress says, “Hey, I’m available. Want me?” She may wear a really short skirt or flaunt all that she’s got to get the guy. But the flirt takes a less in-your-face approach. Guys like the chase, so be less obvious. Throw out the signals, but don’t tackle him down. Flirting is a subtle and ancient art that hasn’t changed much over time, even though skirts have gotten shorter. Watch classic movies like Casablanca and take notes — those ladies always knew how to get the guys' attention!
Flirting Can Happen Anywhere!
In line at the cafeteria, at a school dance, or at a football game — be prepared to flirt! If you don’t take advantage of your surroundings, your chance may pass you by. This is where QCC comes into play — it’s such an easy way to bring on the flirting.
Practice Makes Perfect
Everyone gets nervous when trying to get a stranger's attention, but know that you really have nothing to lose. Why give the other person so much power? You may think you’ll die of embarrassment if he’s not responsive — but no one has ever died of embarrassment! So get flirting and you’ll get comfortable!
Be Open
Finally, if you aren’t quite ready to initiate the flirting session yourself, that doesn’t mean it won’t come to you. But make sure you look approachable when you want to be approached. If you are looking down or have your arms crossed, your potential flirt may look the other way. Just remember: Flirting is fun, and it’s a win-win situation for everyone!
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