Dear D'Andree,

Not really, dude. It’s not something you can Google. In fact, let's just quit using the word "soulmate" altogether. It makes things sound like one day, you'll look into some stranger’s eyes and right then and there you'll know you’re gonna be with him forever.

But that doesn't happen all that much. And when it does, you might find out in, like, a month that you were totally wrong. Relationships that work are the ones that you put time and effort into, and that’s not something that happens in a split second. And there won't be any harps playing or birds chirping or anything.

So don't go looking for a soulmate. Just go looking for a cool person you want to hang out with. After a while of doing that, you might just find a cool person who you'll be willing to hang out with forever and ever.

Love,
The Advice Girl

Dear Jill,

The thing about breasts is, for some people (especially the folks who don’t have them), they’re kind of hard not to look at. But luckily most of those people resist the urge (or just hide it really well).

Your boyfriend, however, is not so discreet. And what’s more, he probably thinks you can’t even tell he’s doing it. So clue him in, alright? Next time you catch him, say, “Hey, I’m up here.” He’ll get totally embarrassed and snap out of it right away.

So does he want to get to second base with you? Well, of course he does. (He’s a guy, isn’t he?) But that doesn’t mean he’s going to be a jerk about it. Just know your makeout limits and don’t be afraid to put your foot down before things get too far. And if he does get aggressive, you have my permission to pick up your boobs and run far, far away.

Love,
The Advice Girl